Monday, December 28, 2009

Well Geez Dad, it's about time!

Dad woke up!

This morning I drove back to Reno. As I was checking into the hotel, I got a phone message from Kathy, which went something like, "Sara, this is Kathleen, I'm on my way up to Tahoe to get Gene's hearing aids and glasses, and I have wonderful news - your dad was awake for a solid hour while I was there this morning! He knew who I was, he wanted to know where he was, and he had so many smiles: when I told him you were on your way, when I told him I loved him, when I told him about all of the people who were asking about him and thinking of him, when I told him that Jana and Brian had been here. He even mouthed the word 'wow.'"

I sprinted up to my room, threw my stuff down, and made a beeline for the hospital. Sure enough, when I walked in, dad gave me a big smile. He grabbed my hand and brought it to his mouth to kiss it. When I told him he was in the hospital, he gave me a "what am I, some kind of idiot?" eye roll. Through an elaborate series of charades (he still has the ventilator going, and speech therapy hasn't yet come to evaluate him and give him a speaking valve, so he can't talk yet) I determined that he: (1) did not want water, (2) wanted his wrist restraints off, (3) was not particularly excited that his birthday was tomorrow, (4) wanted to leave the hospital for a warm sandy beach where one might find tan girls in bikinis, and (4) needed to go to the bathroom and could I get the nurse because he did not need my help with that thankyouverymuch.

I suppose there's more to say, but I'm so happy about this sudden turn of events that I can't really think of anything else. So I'll try to post again later tonight.

And hey, thanks for those positive thoughts, good vibes, prayers, buddhist meditations, wiccan chants, etc. It looks like they're doing the job!

5 comments:

  1. THANK GOD............... Great news, about time he quit 'dogging it'. When I told my wife the good news and that Kathy was on her way to get his hearing aids, she said you two must be related. That would be the first thing I would have her do.

    Tell him Happy Bday for me. At our age, even an old Bday is better than none.

    Alan

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  2. Fantastic....
    Mal and I are very excited for this change for the better.
    HAPPY BIRTHDAY to your dad.
    Francy Curry

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  3. SUCH GOOD NEWS!!

    My thoughts and prayers are still with
    you all!

    God bless,
    Aunt Elaine & all from Pueblo

    Happy Birthday !!

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  4. Dad,
    Whether you want to hear it or not: HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! I missed you so much! You know, Brian kept telling me that you were just taking an extra long nap and we needed to get you your hat so that you could "count the stitches" while napping. Dad, you won't understand it now, but you owe Brian a Strawberry Milkshake. (Brian will be more than happy to explain). I want to tell you what I have been telling you for the past 2 weeks but you could not hear...I am SO VERY proud of you, THANK YOU for taking such good care of yourself all these years, it has really paid off for not only you, but also for your family who loves you so very, very much. Also, THANK YOU for briefly waking up on December 21, and letting Brian and I know that you were ok, and that you were going to get through this. You, on that day gave me the greatest gift I have ever received. I love you more than you will ever know. You are the very best Dad in the whole world. Love, Jana

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  5. Oh Sara that's wonderful news. I know how you feel. A BIG hug from Houston. Mom's been praying hard...I know she must have a direct line. Once again, great news. Happy New Year! ♥

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